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Toddler Tuesdays

6:00 AM

As you all know, that is if you are a parent, life is all about poop these days (ok not really, but really)– especially in the early ages. And if you are a new parent to be – be prepared to become desensitized to poop and poop talk. And if you think you will not talk about poop, think again (you will also, accidentally say potty, aloud to people who are not toddlers or infants). Go ahead, try not to. I dare you.

When he was 2 years old, I started to feel like I should really get a head start on the potty training thing, especially with the impending birth of his sister, we really didn't want to have both of them in diapers!  So we would occasionally ask him if he wanted to go on the potty (tip: don't ask them, just take them to the potty. it works much better, as we have found out). He did pretty well for awhile. Months would be filled with little marked stars (we would do stickers too but we never did the jelly bean or that type of reward system - not because I don't believe in it, but because - well, I never got around to picking up any type of lil reward candies), then one day he just eased off on it, maybe its that thing they call regressing? (that and we had our hands full) He started to undo things that he was big enough to do - like put on his shoes and or clothes, and even walk. He wanted to be carried more (more hugs and kisses for me) often and a few times he even asked for us to spoon feed him, just like his sister. He was also acting out a lot more..anyway, potty training just went by the wayside and with the chaos of our daily lives, it didn't find itself back in our routines again.

Well, fast forward to last Thursday where at his daycare, he was going on the potty more frequently and coming home with full sticker charts of accomplished potty peeing (and sometimes pooping). Then one day he said he didn’t want to wear his pull up or diaper. Friday was spent diaper free except for nap time (even though he insisted on not wearing the pull up to which they decided wearing the underwear over the pull up was a funny alternative) but he woke up dry and quickly used the potty when he awoke. During our weekend, we continued - despite the fact we didn't stay home much. Although, there have been two minor accidents, but were surprisingly minor. Saturday we stocked up on underwear and training pants that he picked out and have been pretty successful (high fives all around!) during the weekend. Charles and I commented to each other on how amazed we both were at the appearance of ease with it all. I know it aint over yet and we haven't had a full week of this awesome feat, but I'm still holding out hope that the $28/mo we spend on packages of his diapers, can be put to something else - oh like a night out, perhaps? That's $336/yr people!

Jax, at 3 is an amazing little human. He surprises me each day. He also, frustrates me each day too, but what do you expect from a 3 year old? I can't stay upset long and it's usually because my expectations get the best of me (that and I'm tired and also holding a teething baby who is now not sleeping thru the night). I guess he also won't be a toddler for long, as it turns out -  the "experts" say that 3 is the last year of toddlerhood, so 'll try and cherish them..

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1:57 PM

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I am currently.... 

Achieving some goals I made regarding re-designing, re-vamping this lil blog of mine. It's still a work in progress but I am scheduling time to write and publish posts to keep this blog updated regularly. Writing is very therapeutic for me. I've recently updated our about page, and in doing so, it had me reflect back on a lot of my writing/posts from my "old" blog.

Building two bedroom night stand/side tables that have been neglected for months, ever since we bought it from ikea. I have high hopes that it will finally get put together, painted and stained this weekend. 

Collecting design ideas for the blog. I'm glad there are lots of great resources out there, some free (like this site - that I used to make my buttons and ads. You can also use it to make collages and edit photos) and some not. Specifically from here. (*I was not paid to say these things. These are actual sites I use :) )

Dealing with trying to potty train our 3 year old. Yeah, enough said. 

Enjoying our lovely backyard. Having an actual, usable backyard allows us to play outside more and eat al fresco breakfasts. I'm hoping to get some bistro type string lights up soon..

potty

12:35 PM


Here is a video of him on his potty from yesterday's post. He was scooting around for a bit, until i started to film him of course! I was using my phone so it makes it a bit dark - even with some brightness added to it.

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4:12 PM

Last night when I asked if he needed to go potty - he went running to the bathroom (straight thru that hallway behind Jax) and scooted out from the bathroom on his potty. He was scooting on that thing like crazy. No poopin, just scootin. Sorry..i swear i get the inkling to make those corny jokes from my Mom!

More updates soon..sorry :)

everyone poops

let's get this potty started right

7:41 PM


So...we both lost the bet. I would have won if I had checked the exact weight of his last check up visit. The nurse we had called it though. I liked her. She overheard cw talking on his cell phone telling whoever it was on the other line that he is a stay at home dad. So when i was undressing Jax, she was speaking to Jax and saying how her little one also spends time with his dad and how they get to have all the fun and mess and that when she gets home she's the lucky one who gets to clean it all up and still make dinner.

Jax was great as usual except of course when it came time to get the shots. the nurse who administered the shot was a lot better than the one we got at our last check up. i nursed him right before and right after. but this time he didnt conk out like he had done before. this time he was up and cheerful after nursing and was happy to look around while we walked home.

oh and also - Jax's doc said to start getting into the habit of putting him on a baby potty each morning. WHAT?! really? a potty? at 6 months? he said, since he is such a good sitter upper (not exactly in those words), yeah sure why not and the fact that we use cloth, it would be an "easy" enough transition. i think what he meant to say was - arent you guys hippies? you guys are crunchy like that right? - well, okay then. anyways. i was perplexed, albeit somewhat intrigued by the idea. so much so that when we got home i went to amazon and ordered a little baby bjorn potty.

fast forward to the day after we got the potty. i get a picture text message from cw of the potty. with poop and pee in it. i, of course, thought he was joking. i mean, come on, we had it for a day. cw is definitely pulling a fast one on me. then i thought, wait, he does not have the luxury to create such an elaborate scheme only to pull my leg and besides there was no more sweet potato food cubes to pull it off. i still texted him back and called bullshit. but no, it was real baby poo poo. it seems as if all my conversations these days are about poo poo. so, yeah, he goes pee and poo on his potty - but only when we actually are not lazy and remember to put him on it (we do it at least every morning when he gets up). but we still put him in diapers. like i said. we are lazy. now of course all this is without controversy, as is with a lot of parenting and child rearing issues. but if you think about it, its work you either do now or do later and later is when they can throw the poop back at you. on purpose.

if you want to read more about the controversy, go here. and here. and here is an article in the ny times.

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